Sticking With It

Okay.  Scratch two items off my new to do list — I am officially a dot.com (yay!) and I joined a handful of writer’s groups (Meetup.com).  I’ll be attending my first one next week.  I’m also working on an application to volunteer (VolunteerMatch.org — if you’re interested in finding an opportunity to volunteer as well) to teenage girls in an effort to help them find their writer’s voice.  I feel like I’m going from 0 to 60 in no time flat, but I’ve always worked much better when I have more to do.  And as the last year has shown, I’ve had way too much time on my hands with little result, so it feels good to start making plans.  What I’m hoping to gain from all this is some accountability — some pressure to produce and succeed.

I’ve set a few deadlines for finishing some writing projects in the hopes that with the spring (that time of year when agents get bombarded) I’ll have a handful of pieces ready.  In addition, I’m working on some personal goals, looking to update my blog, among the many other items on that Professional To Do List I’ve grown so fond of.  *Whew.

So here’s to sticking with it!  I hope you all are achieving some of your goals as well.  Let’s keep at it!

“The greater danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it.” -Michelangelo

Best of luck!

Resolutions

TypewriterFontWriterSo of course over the last two days every article I came across was in regards to sticking to the (writing) resolutions we make.  I’m still working on my list — a few items require an investment and I’m already becoming overwhelmed at the amount of things I’m even hinting at wanting to accomplish, both personally and professionally.  I’ve never been very good at the whole resolutions thing.  The idea of setting imaginary goals on one specific day of the year, only to be soon forgotten, seemed pointless when you can start each and any day with the same drive and purpose.  But now I sort of get it.  In the writing world, there are deadlines to be met, opportunities that come and go on an annual basis, and it’s good to be prepared right from the beginning of the new year so you know what to expect.

As I’ve learned, this is something that comes with age, time really does fly.  Days flow into one another to the point of not being able to remember what one did just two or three days before.  With a new year comes possibility.  There’s hope that this one will be different from the last, but this only works when we make a conscious effort to make it different.  We can complain all we like about our fates, but if we do nothing different, if we don’t alter our perspective and take action, then there is no one else to blame come the following year.  So the new year implies making the effort.  We reflect on our past actions and become mindful to not repeat them.

I have made a conscious decision to alter my ways.  I know I wasted too many days not writing last year consumed with depression over failed attempts at contests, not finding a “regular” job, and just a sheer lack of perspective.   Half way through the year I took notice and started to change, so that this year would be better.  Also, I’ve grown more lonely in an already lonely vocation, in part because I don’t have a “regular” job where I interact with people regularly.  So I watched too much Netflix and played too many video games, but I love doing both…This is something I vow to change this year by joining a writer’s group and volunteering.  I want to look back on my life and find it fulfilling, and the past year has not been that.  I told my sister that I had this silly notion that one day, when I’m successful and I’m being interviewed and the like, that I would like “them” to say, “Oh, wow, you do this, this, and this?  How wonderful!”  This is both a personal and professional goal, and though silly, may inspire me to do more with myself and my work.  It’s like having that Oscar speech, or what ever award you want to win, ready.  Most of us are prepared to thank those who helped us or inspired us along the way, and that in itself is a mental goal, that we would like to be standing in front of those esteemed people, worthy of being one of them.

So, here are a few links in regards to sticking to those writing resolutions.  I made note of many of them to help me as well — prioritize, make consistent, manageable progress, identify your big picture, discover and implement your 3 “NOs” as a writer, and a few more.  I hope they help.

LitReactor – The Top 4 Tips For Making Your Writing Resolutions Stick

The Write Life – 3 Steps For Creating Meaningful Goals

Chuck Palahniuk via LitReactor – 13 Writing Tips from C.P.

FabFreelanceWriting – 14 Easy Ways To Improve Your Writing Skills in 2014

Maybe as part of my own accountability, I’ll post my resolutions here.  If they’re out in the world, for anyone to see, it’ll probably hold me to them.

Best of luck and continued success!!

*Image from DL Koontz site

Damsel in Distress? No Thank You.

All I wanted to do was write up a nice, little blog about this article I read on LitReactorDystropia: How the Damsel in Distress Has Evolved, but it started becoming this rant on feminism, and how men objectify women, and how women cut each other down.  Not exactly the direction I intended.  As a modern-day woman, I do find the exploitation of women in this day and age infuriating, and I do not care for stories or movies where the woman’s sole purpose is to be rescued, to cause the ensuing chaos, or to serve no purpose other than to be eye candy — we’re more complex than that, we offer more than that, and it’s time to stop putting us in those boxes.  I’m tired of terms like “bitch” or “slut”.  Just because a woman is strong, vocal, not ashamed of who she is, and not afraid to stand up for what she believes in does not make her any of these labels.  Let’s just get rid of the labels all together.

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I read somewhere that writer Damon Lindehof, co-writer of Star Trek Into Darkness, regretted writing the scene where actress Alice Eve, aka Dr. Carol Marcus, flashes her underwear for no reason other than to flash her goodies.  She’s a scientist, a weapons expert, and yet we have to show her practically naked for what reason?  C’mon.  Fanboys weren’t the only people in the audience.  This is why finding writers that actually create complex female characters is so refreshing.  Some of my favorite shows ever host a female lead; Buffy the Vampire Slayer, La Femme Nikita, and Alias.  All these women, besides being kick-ass, were great characters.  Game of Thrones is wonderful for this reason as well.  Daenerys Targaryen, played by Emilia Clarke, has had a wonderful character arc from frail, young girl to the leader of an army.  Cersei Lannister, played by Lena Headey, has said in interviews that people have called her a bitch to her face, as if she is her character.  If the actions of her character were done by a man, no one would have anything to say.  I’m also a fan of Lost Girl, that not only has a wonderful lead, but interesting side characters as well.  I like the direction TV is going with women, creating strong characters without cliché.

I love the show, Sherlock and its lead, Benedict Cumberbatch, but I have to wonder what sort of reviews  it would get if they had made Sherlock a woman.  Why is it so shocking when a female character is an alcoholic or has some eccentricities?  Why is it absurd to vocalize that not all women want to be mothers or somebody’s wife?  Why do women have to be pigeonholed into a certain category where men feel secure?  What year is it?

Then I found this article by the New York Film Academy about Gender Inequality in Film.  It’s kind of shocking, considering we make up half the population.  As a woman writer, I write about female protagonists with a strong, supportive female cohort.  Two of my scripts are almost entirely made up of women.  I’m not trying to make a statement, I just think that the number of women represented in literature and film is dismal, and when a strong female character makes her way on the scene, she is usually met with resistance.  Have we not, as a society, moved past this point?  I may have been raised by Disney princesses, and believe me when I say they made a huge impact on me, that doesn’t mean those are the types of stereotypical women (maybe just variations) I want to continue to go out into the world.  Little girls deserve more realistic diversity.  They need role models, but they also need to know that whoever they turn out to be is okay.  And the only way they can know this is if we, as writers, make those types of characters available.  Don’t take the easy way out — write interesting characters!

Okay.  I’m going to stop right there, because this did turn into a rant.  Ah, well.  Hopefully, it was enlightening.

Have a great week everyone!

*Images: Sarah Michelle Gellar of BVS, Peta Wilson of LFN, and Jennifer Garner of Alias.

All About Being Helpful

Writing-Clip-ArtSo I’m done moping.  Although I felt a slight indignation last night, today I only wanted to send out positive energy.  As writers, we are always striving to better our writing by continuously reading and learning.  In this vein, I am attaching a handful of, hopefully, helpful resources…do with them what you will.  I have a dozen or so pages to read (oh, yes, again), and will share what I learn from all of those next week.  I suppose this is a good way to accumulate a blog inventory.

Although mainly for screenwriters, Script offers tips and advice that all writers can take advantage of.  If you haven’t taken a look at their site yet, besides their own blogs and information, they offer free downloads on a variety of topics, such as query letters, editing, dialogue, networking, etc.  I’m taking a look at a couple of them this weekend that I’ve already downloaded to test their value.  Here is the list of available downloads.

LitReactor is another useful site.  If you’re a fan of Chuck Palahniuk (author of Fight Club, and my personal favorite, Invisible Monsters), you’ll be happy to learn he regularly contributes.  My favorite article from him is about Thought Verbs.  He reassures the reader that it will make for better writing and who’s going to argue with a writer like Chuck?  I also follow them of Facebook so I don’t miss anything.

A site I came across today, Daily Writing Tips, has loads of information on everything from grammatical errors to proper punctuation to proper word usage.  This would be a good one to bookmark as a reference tool.  I also like the site by Grammar Girl, Quick and Dirty Tips.

I’m also a fan of the site, The Write Life.  I’ve attached articles multiple times from this particular page and follow them on Facebook as well.

Well, that should be enough to get you started.  *Wink.  Please feel free to share sites you find useful as well!

Have a wonderful and productive weekend!

*Image from megrosoff.co.uk  

Accepting Who You Are

TypewriterFontWriterSo, I have something to confess.  I recently realized how time consuming blog writing can be.  For most of you out there, you’re probably thinking, “Duh”.  Sometimes I spend hours trying to get the words just right or the pictures to look just so, and I end up not writing anything else (– that’s the confession part).  I’ll have my Final Draft window open with the script I’m currently working on, but it does just that –it’s sits there, antagonizing me, reminding me of my lack of productiveness.  Now, I am a bit of a procrastinator and I’m well aware of it, but the things that have been going on this week, piling up, are not due to this condition.  I swear.  So I’ve come to a decision.  In the beginning, I was trying to write a blog a day, but as I’ve taken note of over the last few weeks, I can’t keep up (and neither can some of my readers), so, I’m going to write blogs only 3x a week and get myself back on track at writing my stuff everyday.  I think some of it has to do with that rewrite, you all know the one.  It has mentally worn me out.

So what does this have to do with accepting who you are?  In part, it’s about not feeling like a failure when things don’t go as planned.  It’s about setting boundaries and limitations because sometimes we try to do so many things that it becomes impossible to do them all without something falling to the wayside, then we feel bad, and that’s not a good attitude to have when we’re trying to be creative.  In addition to the big goals you may have set for yourself, it’s good to set smaller, daily goals that you can aim to achieve.  Whether it’s a word or page count, how many query letters you’re going to send out, or finding a handful of networking opportunities, set attainable “to do’s” that you can meet and feel good about yourself for accomplishing.  A positive mindset definitely encourages a more conducive writing experience.

You may have to do a little self-reflection, and come to terms with certain facets about yourself.  And I don’t mean only the negative things or those features you consider shortcomings.  If you acknowledge who you truly are, you’re more likely to use it to your advantage, and then who knows what you can accomplish.  Like my procrastination, that sometimes works to my advantage, but can also be stress inducing — I accept that about myself and try, with great effort, to not (always) allow that to rule my day, and yet, when the clock is ticking, my mind suddenly clears and there’s a spark of genius.  Okay, that might be a slight exaggeration, but I do find a strange clarity in those tense final moments (and blaring heart palpitations).

I found two different posts today from friends that reiterated this lesson.  If you’ve never taken a personality quiz before, this one from iPersonic, may be enlightening.  Then, there was a study about Why Creative People Make No Sense.  That made me feel so much better about myself.  Hopefully, it will clarify some things for you too.  We are creatives.  And that means we are complex creatures and we should be proud (maybe I’ll have tee-shirts made or start a support group).

Okay.  I am not going to agonize over this blog any further (P.S.  If you find any grammatical errors, please let me know!) and I’m going to go write.  Really.

Good luck to you and your writing endeavors!

*Image from DL Koontz site

Preparedness (The State of Being Prepared, For The New Screenwriter)

I’ve read that the best time for a screenwriter (and actors) is in the spring.  The holidays are over, it’s a new year, and the television industry is in pilot season and finding new writers to add to their staff.  So it’s best to be prepared ahead of time.  I already feel that this is going to be a two-parter.  As a “new” screenwriter, there are quite a few steps to getting your career off the ground.  You can’t, in all honesty, have only one script ready.  It is due in part to one major follow-up question that will inevitably be asked, “What else do you have?”  According to screenwriting career coach, Lee Jessup, you should have a well rounded portfolio that includes: 2-3 well crafted scripts all in a similar genre, 1 tv pilot or web series, at least 5 more ideas in your genre, and 2 more strong ideas outside your brand*.  *Brand, for a screenwriter means that we (our image), along with our work, are a product, and when you initially make your mark on the industry, it is how you will be recognized.  I currently write (mostly romantic) stories with fantastical elements, so my brand is the fantasy genre and I plan on wearing a lot of pink.  At first it might seem like a pigeonhole, but from what I’ve read, it’s an asset — you could be the one the big-wigs come to for help when a screenplay needs a rewrite in a similar vein as your own style.  Many screenwriters fill their time and make additional income by being script doctors, reliable rewriters (look up Carrie Fisher).  Tip #1 – Keep writing!  Tip #2 – Start developing your portfolio!

So you have your portfolio, somewhat in order.  Then you have to write a query letter and find an agent.  If your networking has been successful, you may already have a lead on an agent.  You’ll quickly learn it’s much easier to get through the gatekeepers (assistants) if you have an “in”.  I have a friend who has referred me to his agent, and as soon as all my little ducks are in a row, that phone call will be more effective.  If you don’t have any contacts, the next best thing is a well written query letter.  There are numerous sites with useful information available, here’s one from Script.  Then there’s the research into finding an agent taking on new clients.  The Writer’s Store offers a directory, updated a few times year, with just this information for a small fee.  Finding an agent will have to be a whole other post or three.  Tip #3 – Craft a query letter!  Tip #4 – Generate an agent/producer/manager list!

And then here are a few more things to be aware of:

5. Your image

6. Become an expert (It’s the ace up your sleeve – be it dialogue, genre, character development, a time period, what have you…)

7. Read the trades (be aware of what’s happening in the industry – Variety & The Hollywood Reporter)

8. Create a list of writers you like, their work, and writing tricks/storytelling techniques they use

9. Find networking opportunities

Okay, that should get you all started.  *Wink.

Have a great weekend!

 

A Journal Entry & A Few Tips

Where do I begin?  I’m still waiting to hear about the writing fellowship I applied for, which is an enormous source of anxiety at the moment.  It’s a great opportunity and I really want it.  I constantly check my email and their Facebook page, which rarely receives an update, and as I gnaw my bottom lip into oblivion and incur a few more gray hairs, I find it hard to concentrate and continue working.  A friend offered me words of encouragement and support in regards to my writing, and to keep looking forward to the next opportunity, but I would greatly appreciate a favorable outcome on this one.  Like most writers, I have a backstory filled with dysfunction and hardship, and there are only so many circles in Hell, so at some point the bottom has to curve back upwards, right?  Okay, my pity party is over.  Back to the topic at hand.  I don’t like limbo mode, and until I know one way or the other, I seem to have had the wind taken from my sails.  I know I’m putting too much stock into this one prospect, but after taking a few knocks this year, I’d like to remember 2013 as the year this amazing thing happened.  It is exactly for this reason I should pour myself into my work, yet here I am, trying to give myself a mental kick in the writing pants.  I should focus on my angst-y protagonist and get her into some butt-kicking scenarios.  That should relieve some stress…this is really just a journal entry, a reminder for my future self.  As writers we struggle.  I think it’s a rule or a genetic defect or a gypsy curse, that we must struggle (physically, emotionally, creatively) in order to be better artists.  And sometimes we just need to vent about it.

On a completely different note, when I returned from the long holiday weekend, I had over a dozen webpages open to read, with more deleted immediately and others bookmarked for future reading.  With the end of the year quickly approaching, numerous sources are offering their year end reviews, best of’s, items of noteworthiness, and ways to start off the new year, etc.  I thought I’d share The Writing Whisperer’s 50 Ways Writers Can Prepare For The New Year.  I think it’s important to set new goals each year (one of the things listed).  I was always terrible at keeping my New Year resolutions, until I was a little older and determined to change my ways.  I’ve mentioned how I put together my own Professional To Do List that includes over 20 items.  I attacked it with voracity initially, but have let a few things lapse (some are time sensitive, some require an investment) until the new year, when I come out of the gates charging.  I find that writing down your goals and posting them, rather than just mentally taking note, is more effective, since it’s staring at you (depending on where you stick it – mine is right beside my monitor, and it is always eyeballing me).  Simple changes, like buying a new journal or pen, taking a little time out to organize/purge your computer’s desktop, your actual desk, and your writing environment can make you feel better or possibly inspired, because who knows what you’ll find.  I’m a little OCD when it comes to being organized, so that’s not an issue, but I would like a new desk, maybe I’ll ask Santa for Christmas.

I hope your week is less stressful and more productive than mine.  I know I’m more productive at night, when my house is finally quiet, so I should take advantage and dispose of some of this angst.  Let’s see what comes of it.

Best of luck to you all!

 

Writing 101 And A Little Rant

I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving weekend!  I’m just back myself and have to pull myself together after the little getaway.  I find it ironic that the day I posted a blog about finding some time to write when you don’t have a lot of time that I lost all of mine.  I went away for the long weekend and found myself without an opportunity to do any writing.  I fell asleep each night exhausted from the day’s events, and barely had a moment to think of any ideas let alone write anything down.  I took my writing journal and it never saw the light of day.  So here I am, putting my nose back to the grindstone, because I have some making up to do…although, I’ll probably need to start out slow.  Whew, I’m still tired.

I saw this chart today, The Seven Steps to the Perfect Story, and thought I’d share.  Since storytelling has been around since the invention of language, obviously there are some components that are required and we need to be aware of them.  The foundation for these principals can be found in  Joseph Campbell’s The Hero with a Thousand Faces and Christopher Vogler’s The Hero’s Journey (Vogler’s book was inspired by Campbell’s)which I believe are essential reads for any writer.  As I’ve said, and I’m sure you’ve heard time and time again, you have to learn the rules in order to break them.

I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned this before, but if you want to do something, like write or play music or paint, I think it should be part of your education and knowledge base to know the history and evolution of the field you want to be a part of and those that came before.  I met someone who wanted to be a filmmaker, but wouldn’t watch anything prior to the 70s.  The art of film is only a little over 100 years old.  There have been great advances in technology that have therefore advanced filmmaking, but you need to know the basics, and some of my favorites are from the 50s.  How can you call yourself a filmmaker without any knowledge of 75% of the field?  It goes without saying that I did not continue that friendship.  It’s like wanting to be a guitarist and not knowing who Jimmy Hendrix is?  Or wanting to be a writer but you don’t want to read.  Nonsense.

So as the madness of Black Friday and Cyber Monday come to a close, while we wait for more holiday madness in the coming weeks, I wish you all the best of luck in finding a few quiet moments to do what you love.

Have a good week!

More Screenwriting Tips and a Friendly Word

TypewriterFontWriterI recently wrote a post entitled Novels vs Screenplays, but it really should’ve been called Screenwriting 101.  Then I saw this article from Script Magazine, 15 Screenwriting Mistakes to Avoid.  It was too timely not to share.  For those of you interested in screenwriting, this article exposes some of the pitfalls you may be unaware of.  And then there was this, Notes from the Margin.  Somebody sounds a little cranky.

Yes, there are plenty of people out there trying to tell you how to do things, and yes, some rules like formatting exist for a reason (because they won’t give you a second glance if it’s not correct), but I am not here to tell you how to write.  I’m only sharing part of my process and tricks I’ve learned along the way.  I long to be part of a community that shares insight, offers advice, recommends opportunities, and above all else, encourages.  I want people to succeed if their passionate about their work.  Writing is not an easy path, and only other writers will understand the struggles we face each day.  I have friends who are still floundering in finding their purpose, and I am thankful, even when I’m at my wit’s end, that I have found my passion.  I have faced opposition from family and friends and I’m not sure if it’s fear or jealousy, but “those that discourage your dreams have likely abandoned their own” (I don’t know who said this, but I have it tacked on my wall).  And this is one of the reasons we should surround ourselves with those that are like-minded.

So when I say, “Best of luck in your writing endeavors”, I truly mean it!  Good luck!

*Image from DL Koontz site.

Writing and Music

Music&Writing (Zemanta)I am a big proponent of listening to inspiring music when you write.  Depending on the writing, be it a romance, adventure, or thriller, the music you listen to should be a compliment to that style.  For my romantic pieces I usually listen to classical, or what’s considered new age — wordless.  For the spy script I’m currently writing, the music has been a bit more intense — sometimes without words, but with a harder sound (Depeche Mode and Muse have a few wordless pieces that are great for writing to), or some techno and rock.  I’ve also created playlists based on tv shows or movies I’ve liked with similar interests like La Femme Nikita and Alias for my spy script, or Pride & Prejudice and A Single Man for my more romantic pieces.  Just think about what music has done for you in your life.  You hear a song and can be reminded of your childhood sweetheart, your grandparents, graduating high school, or taking a road trip.  I have a few songs that remind me of backpacking through Europe, because I only took two tapes (yes, tapes) for six weeks.  Or when you hear a song you saw in a movie and are right back in that moment and its corresponding emotions.  I mean who doesn’t want to cry whenever they hear a Sarah McLachlan song?  Music is powerful.  It inspires.  And it brings people together.

I know some writers that must have quiet when they write, but I find the silence more distracting, and depending on the time of day, and your writing environment, the outside noises can be more intrusive and a major concentration breaker.  I’ve created multiple playlists on both iTunes and YouTube that I can go to depending on the particular piece I’m working on.  And YouTube is great (and a time sucker) for sharing other music similar to that which you’ve just listened to.  And I love being introduced to new stuff, so when LitReactor shared this article, 9 Great Albums to Accompany Your Writing Process, I was immediately intrigued, and found a few new pieces to add to the collection.

I like the symbiotic nature of writing with music.  I have been given strong visuals to pieces I’m working on when listening to certain music.  I remember writing this romantic period piece while listening to Enya, The Sun in the Stream, in particular.  She is my go to artist when I write.  It was a series of visuals; walking through a vast golden field, a wild castle garden, and two men in a castle courtyard practicing with swords while a woman lingered above watching.  Still to this day, whenever I hear this song, I see these images.

Everyone has their method, and if you’re a writer who likes the silence and it works for you, then don’t let me tell you otherwise.  For me personally, music is so much a part of my life, in every aspect, that it is only natural for me to listen and be inspired further.  I only wish I was better at playing music myself.

Have a good week and best of luck in your writing endeavors!  And thank you to ItalyEnya for the upload!

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